9.12.2012

How to Succeed on a first date.

Are you preparing to go out on a date with your dream partner and it is your first time for both of you to have such a chance? here are some top tips on how to handle a first date impressively.


1.Keep time. This is hard for so many people but failure to keep time creates an impression that either you are a poor time manager or you were not interested in the date. Save you name on day one.

2.Be prepared. Every engagement in life requires advance preparation. Make sure you have booked a good place where you will have you date, arrange for appropriate transport means, move with enough money to avoid being embarrassed for failure to clear all your bills.

3.Look your date in the eyes. Through the date, talk to your date while looking them straight in the eyes. This makes the other person take you to be a very confident person and therefore whatever you say is from the truth part of your heart.

4.Be creative. Find something that will take your date by surprise and do it on to them. Serving a drink, a meal, pulling them a chair, carrying a flower, opening the car door for your date will make you an exceptional date and one will always want to be with you more times.

5.Mind the topics. While on a date, mind the topics you bring up for discussion. Its better to first learn your date before you can bring out a topic. If they are into politics, base on that and if its sports, do not divert their minds. Be careful when you bring a topic about your past relationships.

6.Do not pretend to be what you are not. Many people, especially the men, when they ran short of words, they start talking whatever comes to their lips.  Others start bragging how they are related to the most prominent and rich people in their locality. This may at times not impress your date especially if they are not interested in knowing your back ground as yet.

7.Go for the date alone. Its indiscipline to move out on a date with a friend especially if you are going to be with a reserved person. It may be a good idea to you and your friend but to your date, it will spell a bad image and this may cost you another date in the future.